I found this on ChaiGyaru's blog, who in turn found it on Nira Chan's blog, and I totally feel her. While I currently have a man to lean on, and I know he won't be perfect, I still find myself wishing on occasion that some of these things would come easier to him...
I want a man, not a boy. ♥
a man who knows how to appreciate the things I do for him. a man who pampers me with something money can't buy. a man who knows his mistakes and tries to make it right. a man who can be my pillow whenever I need someone to lean on. a man who knows when to give in and let down his pride. a man who’d communicate, listen and respond. a man who respects me, my family and his. a man who enjoys what life has to offer. a man who cansay yes or no instead of ‘anything’. a man who won’t keep me waiting though the day or night. a man who(at least) try figure out what’s going on inside me and resolve it. a man who help the relationship work when it gets tough. a man who'd never lay his hand on woman. a man who works hard and planning well for his future. a man who is motivated. a man who takes responsibility for his actions a man who gives me freedom that I need. a man who loves me with no doubts.
I would also like to add that I want
a man who knows and understands that a woman will usually associate sex with love.
a man who believes in a Higher Power and would acknowledge that sometimes, there are things beyond any measure of human control.